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SUMMARY:Virtual Author Talk: Irena Smith\, PhD
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DESCRIPTION: Learn about Irenaâ€™s personal experience as a parent\, 
 professional experience as a college admissions officer\, and leave with t
 ips on how to help your child approach the college application process..\n
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 "120" height="120" /></p>\n<p><strong><span style="background-color: #ffff
 99\;">Register for this author talk and check out other online author talk
 s here: <a href="https://libraryc.org/sclsnj/52703">https://libraryc.org/s
 clsnj/52703</a><br /></span></strong></p>\n<p>Another college application 
 season is around the corner\, and stress is already beginning to ratchet u
 p for teens and their parents. You&rsquo\;re invited to join us for this m
 ust-watch talk by Irena Smith\, PhD. You will hear about constructive and 
 healthy ways to approach the college application process\, preserve your r
 elationship with your teen\, and help them define success on their terms i
 nstead of chasing the elusive &ldquo\;golden ticket.&rdquo\;</p>\n<p>Irena
  is a former Stanford Admissions Officer who has spent eighteen years advi
 sing accomplished\, tightly wound students in Palo Alto and around the wor
 ld. She saw firsthand the extreme measures parents took to help their chil
 dren gain admission to highly selective colleges and the toll it took on t
 he children as well as on their parents.</p>\n<p>At the same time\, Irena&
 rsquo\;s own children struggled with developmental delays\, learning diffe
 rences\, severe depression\, and anxiety. She kept her double life&mdash\;
 successful college counselor at work\, anxious mom at home&mdash\;tightly 
 under wraps for years until a stunning realization: she was exactly like t
 he anxious parents of the students she worked with\, all of whom were equa
 lly terrified about&nbsp\;their&nbsp\;children's future. Irena&rsquo\;s me
 moir\, "The Golden Ticket: A Life in College Admissions Essays"\, which ca
 ndidly explores her personal as well as professional life\, was published 
 in 2023\, and she has since devoted her time to speaking out about hard th
 ings: the heavy burden of generational expectations\, teen and young adult
  mental health\, and the importance of embracing a broader\, more generous
  vision of what it means to succeed.&nbsp\;</p>\n<p>About the Author:&nbsp
 \;Irena Smith is an author\, former Stanford admissions officer\, independ
 ent college counselor\, and mother of three extraordinary children. She em
 igrated from the former Soviet Union with her parents when she was nine ye
 ars old. In spite of her fierce insistence that she would never\, not ever
 \, learn English\, she went on to earn a BA in English and then a PhD in C
 omparative Literature (both from UCLA\, where she received a Distinguished
  Teaching Assistant Award and Dissertation Year Fellowship). Irena taught 
 literature and composition at UCLA and Stanford before transitioning to co
 llege admissions\, college advising\, and writing. Her recently published 
 memoir\, "The Golden Ticket: A Life in College Admissions Essays" is the w
 inner of the Story Circle Network's Gilda Award\, named in honor of comedi
 an Gilda Radner to recognize honest\, authentic writing that "makes us lau
 gh even when we want to cry." It's been described by Forbes as &ldquo\;cap
 tivating and smart&hellip\; a potential antidote to the fevered belief tha
 t being admitted to an elite college will spell the difference between a s
 uccessful life vs. a doomed future.&rdquo\;&nbsp\;</p>\n<p>This program is
  brought to you in partnership with the Library Speakers Consortium\, whic
 h provides access to a range of talks from bestselling authors and thought
  leaders.</p>\n<p>* Virtual programs work best with the current version of
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