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SUMMARY:"Stop Over-Giving"
LOCATION:Downtown\nDowntown
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DESCRIPTION:Join us for a 1 hour presentation on how to set boundaries. \n
 \n .\nhttps://hplct.libnet.info/event/12903631
X-ALT-DESC;FMTTYPE=text/html:<p>If you&rsquo\;re feeling overwhelmed becau
 se you&rsquo\;re constantly giving to others and neglecting yourself\, I g
 et it. That was me for 50+ years. If you&rsquo\;re over it and just can&rs
 quo\;t do it anymore\, I hear you. If you long for authentic self-expressi
 on but are afraid of what others will think\, I get that too.</p>\n<p></p>
 \n<p>Learn the secret to balanced relationships by repairing your life fro
 m the inside out.</p>\n<p>Perhaps you&rsquo\;re a professional woman like 
 a manager\, business owner or nonprofit worker. You got into your professi
 on to help others\, but now it&rsquo\;s gone way too far. You find yoursel
 f living for others&rsquo\; approval and unable to say no because you&rsqu
 o\;re so afraid of what they&rsquo\;ll think. I used to be afraid people w
 ould think I was a &ldquo\;bad person&rdquo\; if I said no.</p>\n<p>Maybe 
 you&rsquo\;re afraid people are going to think you&rsquo\;re &ldquo\;selfi
 sh&rdquo\; (God forbid!) if you set limits with them or try to take time t
 o &nbsp\;do things you want to do\, like working on projects that will get
  you promoted (instead of your boss) or taking time at home for your hobbi
 es or rest.</p>\n<p>&nbsp\;</p>\n<p>This workshop is for you if&hellip\;</
 p>\n<p>&middot\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\; You&rsqu
 o\;re feeling pulled in all different directions and just can&rsquo\;t do 
 it anymore</p>\n<p>&middot\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbs
 p\; You look on the outside like you have your shit together\, meanwhile y
 ou&rsquo\;re falling apart inside</p>\n<p>&middot\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&n
 bsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\; You&rsquo\;re trapped in people-pleasing and co
 ntinually say yes when you really want to say no</p>\n<p>&middot\;&nbsp\;&
 nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\; You&rsquo\;re so busy rescuing a
 nd fixing others that you neglect yourself\, and maybe even feel like you&
 rsquo\;ve lost yourself</p>\n<p>&middot\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp
 \;&nbsp\;&nbsp\; You&rsquo\;re a helper who needs help</p>\n<p>&nbsp\;</p>
 \n<p>It&rsquo\;s time to start living a life of balance with more authenti
 c relationships where you stop over-giving\, but are still kind and helpfu
 l. Match your outsides with what&rsquo\;s going on inside and feel more au
 thentic at work and at home. Break your people-pleasing patterns and build
  self-love and respect.</p>\n<p>&nbsp\;</p>\n<p>In this presentation we&rs
 quo\;ll cover&hellip\;</p>\n<p>&middot\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\
 ;&nbsp\;&nbsp\; What boundaries are</p>\n<p>&middot\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;
 &nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\; Why boundaries matter</p>\n<p>&middot\;&nbsp\
 ;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\; When and where to set them</p>
 \n<p>&middot\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\;&nbsp\; How to set
  and uphold them</p>\nhttps://hplct.libnet.info/event/12903631
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